Are you happy? The reason I ask you that question is that lots of men and women are not happy with the way they look, their figure, even with their relationship.
It’s so sad that unhappiness can bring you to the highest extent if your try.
Consider having a low sexual relationship for example that includes; not contented with sexual performance, stress during make-ups and even unfaithfulness in a relationship.
Most people just gave up to their partners easily without even trying to fix or figure out what really causes such misfortunes.
One of the most major sexual problems that men and women get to experience is low sexual libido or also known as Hypoactive sexual desire disorder.
HSDD is a disorder that you expected too much from your partner and lead to disappointments.
What are the common symptoms of HSDD and what is the best way to combat it?
1. Disinterested In Sex
Not interested in sex is one of the indicators of HSDD. Considering that a person is free from emotional stress he/she still shows no signs of arousal or desire to have sex.
This something sexual therapy can mend. Absence of enthusiasm in engaging in sex usually happens between the age of 18-59 years old both men and women.
You have to understand that men and women have their own ways to get aroused.
Men are visual while women are emotional and psychological dependent individuals.
Pressures from family, career, economy and other accountability maybe the reason why there is an increased negative reaction towards sex.
2. Hatred Towards Sex
Usually women have a high tendency of hating sex. This can be due to some problem like trauma or persistent issues that remain unresolved.
Women are very good in hiding their feelings so emotional negligence tends to pile up.
Hatred feeling is nurtured so it becomes a habit.
Hatred towards sex is something that both partner should untangle.
There must be an open relationship that problems are talked about and steps must be taken to correct the issues.
3. Genital Pains
Symptoms like pain in your genitals (vagina and penis) are an indicator of HSDD.
Pain during sexual intercourse gives rise to the absence of desire towards sexual copulation.
Pain may be associated with other sexual problem such as sexually transmitted disease. Make sure to see a health professional right away.
Pain is your body’s signal that something not right is going on inside your body.
Couples may not have the desire to have sex because of the product of unfaithfulness. Extramarital issues are one of the common problems that married couples get to experience.
Both sides may agree to never engage in sexual activities because of having another sexual partner.
Polygamous relationships are one of the risk factors in acquiring and transmitting sexually transmitted disease such as Gonorrhea and Chlamydia.
It is very important to be very extra careful not to engage in any form of sexual activities someone whom you do not know.
Infidelity is a personal choice in which there are inevitable consequences.
This is beyond physical issues that couple must face and often results to HSDD.
5. Dissatisfaction Towards Sex
Symptoms of HSDD can be attributed to not finding satisfaction in sex.
Every time you engage in sex you become frustrated. Factors like rape and physical abuse can trigger frustration in sex.
Arousal is impossible because of the emotional trauma. This is a very serious condition that necessary steps must be taken to fix and resolve it.
HSDD symptoms can either be long-term and acquired.
Long term symptoms are the typical state of a person and acquired are due to traumas and other environmental issues.
There are actually proven HSDD treatments that can help men and women overcome HSDD. First medical professionals need to figure out what causes such misery and where it all started.
What To Do?
Some are simply satisfied just to live with HSDD. Reasons are often rejection, fear and shame.
But, they fail to realize that it is not something that can be fixed by keeping but by confession and revelation.
The best thing that you can do is to seek professional or medical help. They are in the position to help you overcome HSDD.
Treating HSDD requires the desire to change, commitment to change and a follow through.